2 Samuel 14:2 (BSB)

So Joab sent to Tekoa to bring a wise woman from there. He told her, “Please pretend to be a mourner; put on clothes for mourning and do not anoint yourself with oil. Act like a woman who has mourned for the dead a long time.

From 2 Samuel 14. Also in the ESV.

Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:2

• Matthew Henry (Presbyterian), Matthew Henry's Complete Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:1-20: Here is, I. Joab's design to get Absalom recalled out of banishment, his crime pardoned, and his attainder reversed, Sa2 14:1. Joab made himself very busy in this affair. 1. As a courtier that was studious, by all ways possible, to ingratiate himself with his prince and improve his interest in his favour: He perceived that the king's heart was towards Absalom, and that, the...
• John Gill (Reformed Baptist), Exposition of the Old and New Testaments on 2 Samuel 14:2: And Joab sent to Tekoah,.... Which Kimchi says was a city in the tribe of Asher, and others in the tribe of Benjamin, but it seems rather to be in the tribe, of Judah, Ch2 11:5; according Jerom (s), it was twelve miles from Jerusalem, though in another place (t) he says it was but nine; of this place was Amos, and some think (u)...
• Geneva Bible Notes (Reformed), Geneva Bible Study Notes on 2 Samuel 14:2: And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead: (b) In token of mourning: for they used anointing to seem cheerful.
• Adam Clarke (Methodist), Clarke's Commentary on the Bible on 2 Samuel 14:2: Joab sent to Tekoah - Tekoah, according to St. Jerome, was a little city in the tribe of Judah, about twelve miles from Jerusalem. There are several circumstances relative to this woman and her case which deserve to be noticed: - 1. She was a widow, and therefore her condition of life was the better calculated to excite compassion. 2.