2 Samuel 3:16 (BSB)

Her husband followed her, weeping all the way to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go back.” So he returned home.

From 2 Samuel 3. Also in the ESV.

Commentary on 2 Samuel 3:16

• Matthew Henry (Presbyterian), Matthew Henry's Complete Commentary on 2 Samuel 3:7-21: Here, I. Abner breaks with Ish-bosheth, and deserts his interest, upon a little provocation which Ish-bosheth unadvisedly gave him. God can serve his own purposes by the sins and follies of men. 1. Ish-bosheth accused Abner of no less a crime than debauching one of his father's concubines, Sa2 3:7.
• John Gill (Reformed Baptist), Exposition of the Old and New Testaments on 2 Samuel 3:16: And her husband went with her along weeping behind her,.... Because of his great affection to her, unwilling to part with her, but forced to it at the command of the king her brother: to Bahurim; a city in the tribe of Benjamin, Sa2 19:16; perhaps the same with Almon, Jos 21:18; these two words being of the same signification; and the Targum has it...
• Adam Clarke (Methodist), Clarke's Commentary on the Bible on 2 Samuel 3:16: Weeping behind her - If genuine affection did not still subsist between David and Michal, it was a pity to have taken her from Phaltiel, who had her to wife from the conjoint authority of her father and her king. Nevertheless David had a legal right to her, as she had never been divorced, for she was taken from him by the hand of violence.
• Keil & Delitzsch (Lutheran), Biblical Commentary on the Old Testament on 2 Samuel 3:6-39: 2Sa 3:6-39 Decline of the House of Saul. - 2Sa 3:6-11. Abner’s quarrel with Ishbosheth. - During the war between the house of Saul and the house of David, Abner adhered firmly to the house of Saul, but he appropriated one of Saul’s concubines to himself.