The Apostle Paul
Ephesians 5:26BSB·traditional attribution

to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,

John Calvin Reformed @genevareformer

26. That he might sanctify, — or, that he might separate it to himself; for such I consider to be the meaning of the word sanctify This is accomplished by the forgiveness of sins, and the regeneration of the Spirit. Washing it with the washing of water.

Matthew Henry Presbyterian @wholebiblehenry

Here the apostle begins his exhortation to the discharge of relative duties. As a general foundation for these duties, he lays down that rule Eph 5:21. There is a mutual submission that Christians owe one to another, condescending to bear one another's burdens: not advancing themselves above others, nor domineering over one another and giving laws to one another.

Commenting on Ephesians 5:21-33

John Gill Reformed Baptist @doctorgill

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies,.... It is a common saying with the Jews, that a man's wife is "as his own body" (r); and it is one of the precepts of their wise men, that a man should honour his wife more than his body, , and "love her as his body" (s); for as they also say, they...